Have you ever looked at the relationships you've let into your life and wondered why you weren't attracting the person you wanted? Or allowing people to treat you less than you deserve because you wanted so badly for a relationship to work out?
Oh lord, I know, I’m not alone. I learned through my own inner adventure, my relationship with myself was in the dumps and had been for a very long time. I had no idea who I was, what I wanted, or what direction I was heading. I was just going through the motions, not realizing what was happening (or not happening). What I did know was that I wanted to be like everyone else. A solid successful career, a picture-perfect marriage with 2.5 kids, a dog, and a white picket fence around my beautiful 3 bedroom home. I wanted all the things you're supposed to have as a woman in her 30's. Or so I thought I should have.
When shit really hit the fan, my anxiety exploded and mistakes were made that affected all parts of my life. Basically, I ended up with 0 for 5 of those items plus a shitty divorce. Feeling like a failure because my life didn't turn out the way I had planned. I was forced to get out of that big dark hole myself, the obstacle I needed to pass to the next level of the game. Life is not here to be perfect, It’s not here to be easy or give you a free ride. It’s here to give you incredible experiences that open you up to a greater existence. They challenge your deepest levels, uncovering more of your truth. They make you realize that life is an adventure to explore and conquer as the hero of your own story.
We all crave connection, to be wanted, and to be loved. But that magical “make you gag” love story you see in all the Hallmark movie fairytales - is all bullshit. Although, shout out to Tyler Hynes (@tyler_hynes he’s a dreamboat 😍) But in all seriousness - YOU’RE the love interest in this epic love story. YOU’RE the fearless hero in this "choose your own adventure" movie. YOU'RE the love you need to be whole. So embrace it, be it wholeheartedly, embody love. That means showing up for yourself, however that may look and grant grace to who and where you are today. To love yourself is to know that whatever happens in your life, good, bad, or otherwise, you're strong, beautiful, and worthy of the most amazing life adventure. Nothing changes that. EVER.
If you're willing to find yourself, take a risk and embark on an inner adventure of self-discovery, mind, body, and soul. I am here to guide you through your inner adventure and discover your truth. It will not be easy but you can love all of the parts of you, through all the mistakes, the highs and lows, and what you could or couldn’t control. They’re all part of your journey, which is what makes yours so special, so unique to you and one that’s authentically yours.
Your inner adventure awaits.
To learn more about embarking on your inner adventure, email me at info@thejoytribeco.ca
Lots of love,
Erin xo.